After this weekends post (Who you smashing? ) readers have been responding with comments about how they had to take a deep search within… Who are you really? Today’s world is designed to make you feel comfortable with whatever you are doing no matter how it’s affecting YOU and others. My expertise is in dealing with one not having sex. However, in coaching sessions I am able to get to the root of the issue, which more times than not the direct association is with a personal issue. An issue that hasn’t been addressed or needs to be re-addressed.

Knowing who you have smashed with or smashing now only makes you observe yourself. As the saying goes, “Birds of a feather flock together.” The conversation of sex is so intimate that it automatically causes YOU to look within and ask, who am I? Really.

The following questions will help define you and attract the right partner:

1. Who am I?

2. Who am I to others?

3. Who do I want to be?

Call to Action: Answer the above questions and take a break this week from ‘smashing’. If you need more help with this send me an e-mail at dleunlimited@gmail.com